40+ Red Flags That Will Make You Rethink Your Relationships Forever
1 Without permission

User Cannotakema shared a bizarre and uncomfortable experience they had with a lady who stayed the night at their house for the first time. The next morning the lady began taking pictures of User Cannotakema's house and proceeded to post them on social media without permission. User Cannotakema was understandably taken aback and asked the lady what she was doing. The lady's response was that she wanted everyone to see User Cannotakema's place.Feeling uncomfortable and violated User Cannotakema promptly took the lady home and expressed their concern at her actions.
However the lady seemed to completely miss the point and instead of apologizing she took to social media to complain about User Cannotakema being petty for not appreciating her posting photos of their house.To make matters even more bewildering the lady then had the audacity to call User Cannotakema to go out again as if nothing had happened. User Cannotakema was shocked by the lady's lack of understanding and audacity to expect them to be okay with her behavior. In the end User Cannotakema made it clear that such behavior was unacceptable and that there would be no second chances after such a breach of privacy.
2 Trust Issues

Reddit user adkichar55 shared a heartbreaking story about a trust issue in their relationship. According to the user their partner handed them her phone to navigate directions while she was driving. However a message from another guy popped up on the screen causing a wave of emotions for the user.
Despite expressing discomfort about their friendship before the partner assured the user that there was nothing to worry about. But when the user saw that the message was about setting up a date they couldn't hold back their emotions and broke down. In a moment of vulnerability the user asked their partner how they should respond to the message seeking guidance in a difficult situation.
3 Delusional

User "itsathrowawai" shared their experience of trying to conceive with their wife. After years of marriage and unsuccessful attempts to get pregnant they were considering adoption when their wife surprised them with the news of a pregnancy. However a subsequent medical test showed that she was not actually pregnant. Despite this the wife remains adamant that she is carrying a child and has started preparing for the baby by buying clothes and pressuring her partner to set up a nursery. The user is feeling conflicted and unsure of how to handle the situation. They love their wife but are worried about her denial and the potential strain it is putting on their relationship.
The user's inaction is being interpreted by their wife as a lack of commitment and a desire to leave which is causing further distress. The user is seeking advice and support on how to navigate this challenging situation they are torn between wanting to support their wife and feeling overwhelmed by the pressure and uncertainty of the situation.
4 We should break up

U/dudius found himself in a confusing and hurtful situation when his girlfriend started texting someone a lot after supposedly making a new friend at a party. Despite his suspicions he didn't push the conversation and was taken aback when she suddenly suggested they break up. However his surprise turned to vindication when she later tried to reconcile admitting that the person she had been texting was named Andrew and that things hadn't worked out between them. This revelation gave U/dudius the closure he needed but instead of taking her back he decided to turn the tables on her.
He demanded honesty from her before even considering a reconciliation and when she confessed to her involvement with Andrew he saw it as an opportunity for revenge. In a bold move he texted her back with a cutting remark about their newfound dishonesty and then blocked her number signaling the end of their relationship. This experience left U/dudius feeling empowered and ready to move on from the betrayal he had experienced. It was a painful lesson learned but it ultimately helped him see the truth and find closure in a situation that had left him feeling confused and hurt.
5 Infidelity

Reddit User ThrowRA09060906 also known as "ThrowRA09060906" shared a troubling situation involving suspicions of infidelity in their marriage. Their wife who works as a flight attendant and frequently travels abroad was not going to be home for their second anniversary. In an attempt to surprise her they planned to hide a card and gift in her luggage before she left. However while doing so they discovered unfamiliar white lace pieces and a pair of heels sparking concerns of potential infidelity. The Reddit user expressed their fears of their wife being unfaithful especially since they had never seen these items before.
Despite their suspicions they have not confronted their wife about the discovery and have been struggling with intrusive thoughts and worries about her potential involvement with another man. The lack of concrete evidence has left them feeling anxious and unsure about how to address the situation. This revelation has left Reddit User ThrowRA09060906 in a state of distress and uncertainty about the future of their marriage. They are seeking advice and support from the Reddit community on how to navigate this challenging and emotionally taxing situation.
6 Common sense isn’t common

User Belisar002 recounted a shocking incident where a woman nearly caused a fire in his kitchen by microwaving a non-microwavable plastic and stainless steel coffee cup. The microwave erupted with lightning and pitch black smoke prompting Belisar002 to be rightfully upset.
Despite the woman's attractive appearance and usually kind nature Belisar002 couldn't help but question her intelligence and common sense. This incident served as a tipping point solidifying his belief that the woman lacked the necessary survival skills to make good decisions. Previous actions had already hinted at this but this dangerous oversight was the final straw for Belisar002.
7 Horrible boss

U/Bobson_Dugb shared a troubling experience from a recent date with a restaurant manager. Throughout the meal the manager displayed a consistent lack of respect towards the staff leaving U/Bobson_Dugb feeling uncomfortable and disappointed. The breaking point came when the manager made a demeaning remark about a waitress prompting U/Bobson_Dugb to take a stand by leaving a generous tip on the table and exiting the restaurant.
Despite the manager's behavior U/Bobson_Dugb made sure to recognize the hard work of the waitress who only made one minor mistake during the evening. This experience serves as a reminder of the importance of treating others with kindness and respect regardless of one's position or status.
8 Came for a test, gave birth instead

U/TorrenceMightingale shared a shocking story from their time working in the ER. They recounted a patient who came in for a UTI but ended up giving birth unexpectedly. The patient's behavior was described as overly dramatic for a UTI and when asked to provide a urine sample she requested to be catheterized which raised some eyebrows. Despite the unusual request the nurse proceeded with the catheterization and was met with a surprising revelation - the patient was actually in labor! The nurse's scream for assistance alerted everyone that the patient was crowning and a rush to call the Labor and Delivery department ensued.
The patient claimed to have had no idea she was pregnant leaving both the medical staff and her boyfriend in disbelief. The boyfriend who had only been dating the patient for four months was completely unaware of her pregnancy and was left stunned by the sudden turn of events. The patient was swiftly taken to a postpartum recovery room leaving everyone involved in a state of shock and confusion. The unexpected childbirth in the ER was a reminder of the unpredictable nature of medical emergencies and the importance of always being prepared for the unexpected.
9 Reality Check

User u/esyougeeayeare shared a heartbreaking story about their ex's motorcycle accident which resulted in a broken back. During this difficult time u/esyougeeayeare took on the responsibility of handling all the paperwork and insurance claims on behalf of their ex who was not fully coherent.
However when u/esyougeeayeare needed to access information from their ex's phone they discovered that he had been communicating with another girl while u/esyougeeayeare was away for a week. Despite their ex's attempt to feign confusion u/esyougeeayeare realized the harsh truth and made the difficult decision to walk away from the relationship. This experience undoubtedly left u/esyougeeayeare with a sense of betrayal and heartache.
10 Stalker alert

User u/anythingrandom5 shared a shocking experience involving his wife and a coworker who was allegedly stalking her. In a bold move to protect his wife the user confronted the coworker and warned him to stay away. However the situation took an unexpected turn when it was revealed that the coworker thought the user was aware of an affair between him and the wife not the stalking allegations.This misunderstanding led to the coworker confessing to his own wife about the supposed affair causing a cascade of confusion and emotional turmoil.
The user's wife who had only wanted the coworker out of her life had not disclosed the true reason for wanting him gone. This left both the coworker and his wife bewildered and seeking answers from the user. The user's initial confusion about the situation eventually gave way to understanding as the truth unraveled. This bizarre and unexpected chain of events serves as a reminder of how miscommunication and assumptions can lead to unintended consequences in relationships.
11 Secret Bank Account

User Traditional-Resist45 took to an online forum seeking advice on a troubling discovery he made about his wife. Married for a decade with two young boys the couple seemed to be financially stable with no major issues. However a recent revelation shook the foundation of their relationship. While checking their joint bank account online User Traditional-Resist45 noticed an unexpected transfer of about $100 to an undisclosed account. Further investigation revealed multiple transfers to this account with no apparent pattern in terms of frequency or amount. Confronting his wife about this discovery she reluctantly admitted to having a secret bank account that she had kept hidden from him.
Despite his request to see the account details online his wife refused to disclose the information sparking suspicion and unease in User Traditional-Resist45. Unable to shake off the feeling of betrayal and secrecy he took matters into his own hands by checking the balance of her secret account using her bank card at an ATM. To his surprise the account only held a few hundred dollars and there were no extravagant purchases to explain the hidden funds. Confused and troubled by his wife's actions User Traditional-Resist45 sought advice from the online community on what could possibly be the reason behind her secrecy. The forum was abuzz with speculations and suggestions but the underlying question remained - what was his wife hiding and why was she so reluctant to share the truth with him?
12 Prioritizing myself

U/PlayfulPickle4501 shared a difficult situation involving her dad and stepmom who have four children together. Her dad's son from a previous marriage is 7 and they have a 4-year-old daughter and a 1-year-old son. When they were struggling with childcare they asked her to help out but when she asked to be paid for her time her dad reacted angrily and accused her of being selfish and spoiled. Feeling hurt by her dad's response U/PlayfulPickle4501 has not spoken to him in over 3 months. She explained that she was not asking for much just to be compensated for the time and effort she was putting in to help with her siblings.
She emphasized that she had been financially independent paying for her own rent and schooling and felt that it was not her responsibility to watch her siblings as she did not choose to have them. The situation highlighted deeper issues in their relationship with U/PlayfulPickle4501 describing her dad as a narcissist who lacked respect for women. Despite her love for her siblings she felt she needed to stand up for herself and set boundaries in her relationship with her dad. The conflict had strained their relationship but U/PlayfulPickle4501 remained firm in her decision to prioritize her own well-being and self-respect.
13 Codependent

User u/anorangehorse expressed concern about their friend Aaron and his girlfriend Mary noting that they have a co-dependent relationship and lack friendships outside of each other. It is mentioned that Mary is controlling and doesn't allow Aaron to do certain things and that Aaron seems to be completely devoted to her despite her flaws. The user goes on to reveal that they heard from a friend of Mary's Alison about Mary cheating on Aaron with her ex at a party. This information could potentially devastate Aaron and lead to the end of their relationship.
The user also speculates that Aaron may ultimately be unhappy in a marriage where Mary is so controlling. This situation raises ethical dilemmas for the user - should they tell Aaron about Mary's infidelity potentially causing him pain but saving him from a potentially toxic relationship? Or should they stay silent to avoid destroying their friendship and potentially causing more harm in the long run? Ultimately the user is grappling with the moral implications of revealing this information and the potential consequences it could have on their friends' lives.
14 Hidden Diary

On the Reddit forum U/PurgatoryMountain a user shared a heartbreaking story about discovering his girlfriend's infidelity. The user who had been in a serious relationship with the girl for almost a year recounted a shocking discovery he made while at her house one night. While she was in the shower he stumbled upon a diary hidden under her bed. Expecting to find beautiful sketches he instead found entries detailing her multiple affairs with other men.
Feeling betrayed and devastated the user confided in a close friend of the girlfriend and learned the shocking truth - his girlfriend and three of her friends had made a pact to cheat on their partners together. They would rent hotel rooms cover for each other and meticulously document their deceit to avoid detection. When confronted the girlfriend was caught off guard and attempted to explain herself. However the damage had been done and the relationship was irreparably broken. The user made the difficult decision to end things with his unfaithful girlfriend realizing that the trust between them had been shattered beyond repair.
15 Jake or Anthony

U/DJdisonanca99 shared an amusing story of a misunderstanding that occurred during a social gathering with his new girlfriend and her friends. He was enjoying getting to know her friends when a mix-up happened with one of the guys he was chatting with. Upon introducing himself as his girlfriend's boyfriend the guy mistakenly called him by a completely different name Jake instead of his actual name Anthony.
The awkward yet humorous moment left U/DJdisonanca99 feeling slightly puzzled but ultimately amused by the confusion. This experience highlighted the importance of clear communication and attention to details in social interactions.
16 Cheating on me

User hoocares shared a shocking experience on Reddit. She revealed that her ex-boyfriend had allowed her to use his iPad to watch a movie on Netflix. However she discovered that his messenger account was linked to both his tablet and phone and messages kept popping up while she was watching. To her horror she witnessed her boyfriend arranging to cheat on her with his best friend's wife over the upcoming holiday weekend. He even went as far as to promise to get rid of her so they could be intimate in their shared bed. The betrayal and deceit that unfolded in front of her eyes left her feeling devastated and betrayed.
It was a heartbreaking and eye-opening experience that ultimately led to the end of their relationship. The emotional turmoil and disbelief she must have felt in that moment are unimaginable. It serves as a stark reminder of the importance of trust and communication in any relationship. This story highlights the dangers of technology and the potential for privacy invasion in a digital age. It also serves as a cautionary tale about the consequences of infidelity and dishonesty. User hoocares' vulnerability and honesty in sharing her story serve as a reminder to always be mindful of the impact our actions can have on others.
17 The affair

My boyfriend surprised me with a weekend getaway to a luxurious hotel. The moment we arrived and started checking in the receptionist's demeanor caught my attention. There was a strange look on her face as she addressed my boyfriend informing him of an issue with our reservation. Confusion clouded my boyfriend's face as he insisted that he had made the reservation weeks ago. The receptionist then revealed that someone named 'Jessica' had canceled our reservation just a few hours prior. The name struck a chord with me and I couldn't help but confront my boyfriend about it.
It was then that everything clicked into place. His mysterious behavior his extra hours at work it all made sense now. I realized he had been deceiving me using work as an excuse to cover up his affair with his boss Jessica. Filled with a mix of anger and sadness I found the courage to end the relationship once and for all. I even went as far as making him book a separate room for me at the hotel wanting some time alone to process everything that had just unfolded.
18 A wake up call

User U/THROWRAsjaja2828 shared a heartbreaking experience about her relationship with her boyfriend. After two years together she thought he was attracted to all of her but that belief was shattered when she overheard him and his friends making hurtful comments about her appearance. Despite feeling ashamed and hurt by the comments what hurt her the most was that her boyfriend not only laughed at the remarks but also failed to defend her.
Feeling betrayed and insecure U/THROWRAsjaja2828 expressed her disappointment in her boyfriend's behavior and questioned whether he truly valued her for who she was. The incident not only damaged her self-esteem but also made her question the authenticity of her boyfriend's feelings towards her. This experience highlighted the importance of mutual respect and support in a relationship. It served as a wake-up call for U/THROWRAsjaja2828 to reevaluate her relationship and consider whether she deserved to be with someone who truly appreciated and respected her for both her inner and outer beauty.
19 Haunting encounter

U/GAU8 recounted a tense encounter with someone they had an argument with leading to an unsettling situation. After sleeping on the floor following the argument they went to the bathroom to text a friend for a ride. To their surprise the person they had argued with was waiting for them in the darkness silent and staring.
Feeling unnerved U/GAU8 pretended to be asleep until the person left. However when they eventually looked out from under the covers they found the person standing over them in the dark eyes wide open. The eerie atmosphere and the intense gaze of the person left U/GAU8 feeling uneasy and on edge. It was a moment that stuck with them haunting them long after the encounter had ended.
20 Drugged me

User throwramerr shared a shocking experience on Reddit revealing that their boyfriend drugged them with Benadryl during a road trip back to their home state. The user explained that they had gotten into a fight with their boyfriend right before leaving and shortly after hitting the road they passed out unexpectedly. They woke up briefly to drink some Gatorade that their boyfriend had given them only to fall back asleep again.
Upon questioning their boyfriend about the incident they were horrified to learn that he had intentionally drugged them with Benadryl to make them sleep and avoid dealing with their behavior. The user expressed their shock and disbelief at the confession feeling completely betrayed by someone they trusted. This disturbing revelation has left the user reeling trying to come to terms with the fact that their boyfriend would go to such lengths to avoid confrontation. The user's sense of safety and trust in their relationship has been shattered and they are left feeling vulnerable and unsure about their future with their partner.
21 My wife’s facebook affair

U/QRT_W shared a heartbreaking story about discovering his wife's infidelity through a Facebook message from his best friend. Despite having suspicions he never had concrete proof until that moment. Confronting his wife led to a series of lies including one where she claimed the other man had taken advantage of her. However the truth eventually came out and their relationship suffered greatly as a result. Despite their efforts to salvage their marriage the damage was irreparable.
The turmoil in their relationship stemmed from his wife's narcissistic tendencies and inability to admit fault. After seven more years of trying to make it work U/QRT_W made the difficult decision to leave his wife in March of 2017. To add insult to injury his wife quickly moved on with someone else starting a new family with them and even adopting new dogs to replace the ones they had together. This betrayal and swift replacement only added to the pain and heartache U/QRT_W experienced throughout this ordeal.
22 Tuna salad

U/Tousca reminisced about a pivotal moment in their relationship which had lasted for about 6-8 months. It was a seemingly innocuous incident involving tuna salad that revealed deeper issues in their partnership. When U/Tousca made tuna salad for both of them they offered two different versions - one for each of their preferences. However their partner reacted negatively seeing this simple difference in taste as a sign of irreconcilable incompatibility. This incident highlighted a larger pattern of controlling behavior and an unwillingness to compromise in the relationship.
U/Tousca began to reflect on other instances of their partner's rigidity and realized that this was not a healthy dynamic. While the breakup did not happen immediately after the tuna salad incident it was undoubtedly the beginning of the end for their relationship. The added complexity of infidelity only served to further strain an already fragile connection. Ultimately U/Tousca recognized that differences in preferences whether in food or in life should not be seen as obstacles to harmony but rather as opportunities for mutual respect and understanding.
23 Health scare

User ElToberino shared a personal anecdote about a difficult experience they had. They were away in Denver for work and had a date night planned with their partner upon their return. However their partner called them in tears as they were on their way back revealing that they had been with someone else during their absence. Shocked and hurt User ElToberino's heart sank as they listened to the conversation unfold.
To make matters worse it was disclosed that the other person their partner had been with was her ex-husband. In a stroke of luck a few months later their partner called with news of positive STD results which User ElToberino managed to avoid. This betrayal and subsequent health scare undoubtedly left a lasting impact on User ElToberino's life and relationships.
24 The man I married

When I decided to marry my husband I accepted him for who he was - an overweight lazy video game enthusiast with a heart of gold. However everything changed after a camping trip with his friends two years ago. It was as if a switch had been flipped and he transformed into a completely different person. Gone were the days of endless video game sessions replaced by a newfound passion for running and a love for reading books. He even made the surprising decision to become a vegetarian a stark contrast to his previous meat and potatoes diet. It was like I was living with a stranger albeit one with the same kind heart that initially drew me to him.
Despite the positive changes in his life I can't help but feel a twinge of nostalgia for the man I married. I understand that people evolve and grow but sometimes I miss the familiarity of our old life together. Our marriage remains strong and his transformation has inspired me to strive for personal growth as well. While I am proud of the person my husband has become I can't shake the feeling that a part of him is lost amidst all the changes. I cherish the memories of our past and hold onto the hope that deep down the essence of the man I fell in love with still remains.
25 A cringe date

U/wsawyer12 shared a humorous yet cringeworthy story about the downfall of his relationship with a girl he was dating in college. They both shared a love for attending concerts particularly those featuring smaller emo-type bands. During a trip to Dallas with his sister who was dating the lead singer of one of the bands they were going to see and a few friends things took a turn for the worst. After the concert they found themselves hanging out with band members in a cellar-like bar area enjoying each other's company.
However things quickly went south when the girlfriend made a bizarre comment about wanting to screech in the venue. Confused one of the band members asked for clarification only for the girlfriend to let out an ear-piercing screech that drew the attention of everyone around. It was in that moment that U/wsawyer12 knew the relationship was over. Upon returning home he had to break the news to his girlfriend that their relationship just wasn't going to work out. The awkward and cringe-worthy moment at the concert had sealed the fate of their romance.
26 High school dating/gaming

User Cupcake_Octopus shared a high school dating experience where she encountered a guy who displayed an unexpected reaction during a game of Super Smash Brothers. Despite initially thinking he was awesome for not dumping her like previous guys his behavior during the game was a major turn-off.
After finally convincing her mom to let her visit his house after three months of dating Cupcake_Octopus revealed her gaming skills to him. However his reaction to losing to her once was far from mature. He threw a tantrum screaming throwing his controller and using inappropriate language towards her and the game. This incident led her to swiftly leave his house without looking back. The story highlights the importance of handling defeat gracefully and respecting others even in competitive situations.
27 Cheating on me with Alexa?What?

User SnooLentils314 shared a heartbreaking story about her marriage falling apart after the birth of their baby. Her husband asked for space and she later discovered he was having an affair through an Amazon Echo device on their family Prime account. The chilling recording of him asking Alexa to play love songs while intimate noises could be heard in the background confirmed her worst fears.
This betrayal led to her giving him the nickname "Amazon Slimeball" in her contacts a reminder of the pain he caused. This story went viral after she shared it on social media and was even picked up by a tabloid newspaper. The story serves as a cautionary tale about the potential dangers of technology in relationships.
28 Not my daughter

Reddit user u/notthedad19 shared a heart-wrenching story about a devastating revelation that has turned his world upside down. Reflecting on his long-standing relationship with his high school sweetheart turned wife he revealed the shocking news that his wife was having an affair with Megan's husband. This betrayal was further compounded by the revelation that Megan's husband is the biological father of his three-year-old daughter. Confronting his wife with this information she initially denied the allegations until the truth came crashing down on her.
Now faced with a shattered reality u/notthedad19 is left grappling with the aftermath of this bombshell. The trust that he once held dear has been shattered leaving him questioning everything he thought he knew. As he navigates the turmoil of this situation u/notthedad19 is left wondering what to do next. The foundation of his marriage has been rocked to its core and he is left to pick up the pieces of what he thought was a solid and loving relationship. The emotions of betrayal and hurt run deep leaving him at a crossroads with no clear path forward. This devastating revelation has left him questioning the authenticity of everything he once held dear.
29 The baby and the cheating

As an anesthesiologist who has witnessed many C-sections performed under spinal anesthesia I have seen a variety of emotional situations unfold in the delivery room. One particular incident stands out in my memory involving a couple who were both Caucasian and their newborn baby who was clearly not. It was evident that the biological father of the baby was of a much darker complexion. The moment of truth came when the not-father laid eyes on the newborn and immediately accused his wife of infidelity expressing his shock and anger with three simple words:
"You're a cheater." Without a second thought he stormed out of the room leaving his wife in a state of distress. Despite her cries for him to return she was unable to do much as she was still undergoing the C-section procedure. The situation escalated quickly with the wife becoming hysterical to the point where I had to administer a sedative to prevent her from harming herself. The emotional turmoil and betrayal experienced in that delivery room left a lasting impact on everyone present showcasing the complex and often heartbreaking realities of human relationships.
30 The blog discovery

I discovered the shocking news through her blog which left me feeling betrayed and hurt. It seemed as though she had forgotten or simply disregarded the fact that I had been there to support her.
The blog post revealed intimate details about her newfound 'real love' and was posted while she was supposedly on a business trip which later turned out to be a week-long vacation with another man. Despite the heartbreak I still cared for her enough to ship her belongings to the hotel where she was staying with her new partner.
31 Broken up?Just like that?

U/PessimisticPanda shared a heartbreaking experience about his girlfriend not having a phone and using her friends' devices to communicate with him. One day when he was trying to reach her he texted some of her friends' numbers only to receive a shocking and devastating reply. The message he received was like a bolt out of the blue informing him that his girlfriend had broken up with him and was now seeing someone else.
This news hit him like a runaway train as it was far from the truth. In fact the couple had not broken up at all. They were even in the midst of planning her dream vacation to Italy for her upcoming birthday. The misunderstanding and false information caused by a mistaken text message led to unnecessary confusion and heartache for U/PessimisticPanda.
32 Caught him red handed

U/Ilunibi recounts a distressing incident where their significant other betrayed their trust by attempting to sleep with a female friend who was staying the night. In the middle of the night U/Ilunibi's partner slipped out of bed claiming to go to the bathroom. However U/Ilunibi's suspicions were aroused prompting them to quietly follow their partner down to the basement where they caught him in the act.
This discovery shattered U/Ilunibi's trust and led to the end of their engagement. Despite their efforts to salvage the relationship their partner decided that U/Ilunibi was no longer "fun" and chose to leave. This heartbreaking experience serves as a reminder of the pain and betrayal that can occur in relationships.
33 A true friend

U/nic326 shared a heartbreaking story about her long-distance relationship that took a sudden turn for the worse. Despite the distance her partner visited her with a plane ticket she purchased showing his commitment to the relationship. However less than a month later everything came crashing down when an old coworker of U/nic326's saw him at a bar with another woman kissing and holding hands.
The shocking revelation came as a betrayal especially since U/nic326's coworker confronted the couple and revealed that she was his best friend exposing his infidelity. The situation escalated further when it was discovered that his best friend was dating someone closely connected to U/nic326's family - her brother-in-law's friend. As a result the truth about his cheating ways eventually came to light leading to the unraveling of the relationship. This heartbreaking experience serves as a reminder of the complexities and challenges that can arise in relationships especially in long-distance scenarios.
34 What is going on!

Recently a Reddit user going by the username U/ThrowRA-194802 shared a shocking and heartbreaking story. It all started when their brother along with his wife and two children moved in with them. The user who has three teenage children of their own noticed that their son and sister-in-law would often go on early morning runs around the farm. However suspicions arose when the user never actually saw them on these runs. One fateful morning as the user was returning home from a friend's house they stumbled upon a disturbing scene. The cabin on their farm was eerily lit up prompting the user to investigate.
What they saw next left them in a state of disbelief - their son and sister-in-law were engaged in an intimate act. The user was left reeling from this shocking discovery and chose not to confront the pair immediately. The betrayal and deceit unfolding within their own home was too much to process at that moment. The user's world had been turned upside down and they were left grappling with how to handle this devastating situation. This heartbreaking tale serves as a reminder of the complexities and challenges that can arise within family dynamics. The user is now faced with the difficult task of navigating this betrayal while also considering the impact it will have on their relationships with their son sister-in-law and brother.
35 A web of lies

During my time working in the maternity ward I witnessed a startling situation unfold. A newborn baby was diagnosed with chlamydia a sexually transmitted infection. It was determined that the baby had contracted the infection from the mother leading to a difficult conversation about infidelity. The mother eventually confessed to cheating on the father as there was no other explanation for the baby's diagnosis.
However the situation took an unexpected turn when it was revealed that the father was also involved in infidelity having an affair with another man's girlfriend. As a result all four individuals involved were diagnosed with chlamydia creating a complex and tangled web of relationships and infections. The ultimate irony was that not only did they not know who the carrier of the infection was but they were also unsure of the baby's true paternity. It was a chaotic and tumultuous situation that truly resembled a wild rodeo.
36 I was away!

During our college years a life-changing moment occurred when my partner revealed she was pregnant. Uncertain about what to do next we decided to schedule a doctor's appointment. I was fully committed to supporting her and our unborn child willing to take on the responsibilities that lay ahead. However our world was turned upside down when the doctor disclosed the estimated date of conception. It dawned on me that I was away from town during that period prompting me to confront her about it.
To my shock she admitted to being unfaithful with my roommate while I was out of town. The betrayal and deceit cut deep shattering the trust and love we once shared. It was a moment of heartbreak and realization that changed the course of our lives forever. Despite the pain and disappointment it was a lesson learned about the complexities of relationships and the importance of honesty and communication.
37 First love drama

In my early twenties I experienced my first love which was tumultuous and filled with ups and downs. Our relationship was volatile and unhealthy causing misery for both of us. The situation became even more complicated when we decided to live together with my family putting our issues on full display for everyone to see. After a period of being on and off we decided to take a break to reevaluate our relationship. During this time apart my partner realized they missed me and made an unexpected visit to my school.
We both agreed to work on our relationship but I sensed something was off when she seemed hesitant during a phone conversation. When I confronted her she revealed that she was leaving me for someone else. The news devastated me but my heartache turned into confusion when she later admitted to cheating on her new partner with me. This revelation added another layer of complexity to our already tumultuous relationship.
38 Infidelity breaks families

Reddit user u/ThrowRAkiddilemma shared a heartbreaking dilemma they are facing. A month ago their wife gave birth to a black baby girl despite both of them being white. The truth came out that the child was a result of a one-night stand their wife had last year. This revelation has led to u/ThrowRAkiddilemma starting divorce proceedings although they are still living together for the sake of their two young sons aged 2 and 4. Paternity tests have confirmed that the two boys are indeed u/ThrowRAkiddilemma's biological children.
Despite the situation they hold no ill will towards the baby girl but unfortunately their family members do. This puts u/ThrowRAkiddilemma in a difficult position as they worry about the impact this could have on their children. The Reddit user is particularly concerned about how their sons may perceive the situation as they grow older. They fear that their sons might come to resent their half-sister for being the reason behind their parents' marriage falling apart. It is a heart-wrenching situation for u/ThrowRAkiddilemma who wants to protect their children from any negativity or animosity that may arise in the future.
39 So embarrassing

User lotus_flower2419 shared her experience at the mall on social media. She mentioned stopping by a kiosk that sold cookies and deciding to buy one. However the lady working at the kiosk offered her a deal - if she bought two cookies she would get one extra for free. Excited about the offer lotus_flower2419 decided to take advantage of it and bought two cookies to get the third one free. Unfortunately her date did not share her enthusiasm and reacted strongly to the situation.
He accused the lady at the kiosk of trying to scam them and began yelling loudly causing a scene that embarrassed lotus_flower2419. She expressed her discomfort with his behavior and stated that being rude to people in customer service is a deal-breaker for her. The incident at the mall highlighted the importance of treating others with respect especially those in customer service roles. Lotus_flower2419's story serves as a reminder of how our actions can impact those around us and the importance of kindness and empathy in all interactions.
40 Her true intentions

User u/mrdewtles shared a troubling experience involving his girlfriend and her deceitful actions. Despite their agreement to stop using protection he discovered evidence of her infidelity in her studio apartment. However they decided to work through it and she vowed to change her ways. Unfortunately a year later his girlfriend's true intentions came to light when she pushed to accompany him to an exclusive party where her ex-boyfriend would be in attendance.
Little did he know she orchestrated the outing to reconnect with her former flame. The betrayal he experienced upon finding them together in the restroom still haunts him to this day. This story serves as a cautionary tale about trust and the importance of being mindful of red flags in relationships.
41 A marriage of lies

Upon returning home from a long day at work I found my wife upstairs. When I called out for her she claimed to be on the phone with her mom and quickly shut herself in the bathroom. It was the year 2002 a time when landlines with cordless phones and base stations were still prevalent. Determined to uncover the truth I made my way to the room where the base station was located. With a heavy heart I muted the call and turned on the speaker only to be confronted with the harsh reality of my failing marriage. As I listened in my suspicions were confirmed as I overheard my wife engaging in a conversation with another man.
Their intimate and familiar tone made it clear that this was not a recent development. They were discussing their plans around my work schedule indicating a level of deceit that cut deep. Without a word I sought legal counsel and initiated divorce proceedings. When I eventually confronted my wife about my discovery and informed her of my decision to end our marriage she wasted no time in moving on with the other man. It was a painful betrayal that marked the end of a chapter in my life one that had once been filled with love and trust.
42 Facebook message

U/Branquignol found himself accidentally logged into his ex-girlfriend's Facebook account on his computer thanks to her using it previously and having many mutual friends. He received a message from one of her friends asking about their recent night together and whether he had seen his ex's underwear. This revelation took a moment to fully register as he had recently ended their three-year relationship on amicable terms without revealing what he had discovered.
Reflecting on the situation U/Branquignol realized that their relationship had been plagued with unhappiness for some time. Despite not feeling angry about the situation he was surprised that it took a Facebook message for them to finally end things. In the end he decided not to confront his ex about the message leaving her unaware of the true reason behind their breakup. The experience served as a reminder of how even small incidents can sometimes lead to significant changes in relationships.
43 Boundaries

User ThrowRA_927 shared that they agreed to carry their sister's baby and are currently six months along. They recently entered into a relationship with a lovely man which has caused some tension due to the strict rules set in place before agreeing to be a surrogate. The original agreement included no bedroom intimacy of any kind but after the user's boyfriend kissed them in front of their sister and brother-in-law the rules were amended to include 'No kissing of any kind.'
The user expressed feeling like their boundaries are being crossed and questioned the new restrictions imposed on them. Despite this they remain committed to helping their sister have her only biological child even though they are not receiving any reward for their selfless act. The situation has caused some conflict within the family dynamic as evidenced by the negative reaction from the user's sister and brother-in-law.
44 Selfish!

User unrealcrocodiletears shared a heartbreaking story about the difficulties they faced while dealing with their late uncle's passing. Despite only dating their partner for less than six months they stepped up to help their family by organizing and moving their uncle's belongings as well as delivering the eulogy at the funeral/cremation.
However during this challenging time their partner became insecure and accused them of cheating even going as far as contacting their family members for reassurance. This added stress to an already emotional situation highlighting the lack of support and understanding from their partner. It serves as a reminder of the importance of compassion and empathy during times of grief.
45 A catfish

Username: ThrowRA_sadangry. In a shocking turn of events u/ThrowRA_sadangry revealed that her husband messaged her on Tinder after she discovered he had the dating app on his phone. Feeling betrayed and unsure of how to confront him she decided to create a fake profile and catfish him only to have him unknowingly message her. This revelation has left her feeling devastated and questioning the trust in their 20-year relationship 15 of which they have been married.
The idea of approaching her husband without breaking down in tears or erupting in anger seems daunting as she grapples with the realization that her trust in him may be irreparably broken. The emotional turmoil and uncertainty that u/ThrowRA_sadangry is experiencing highlights the complexities of long-term relationships and the devastating impact of betrayal. The next steps she takes in addressing this betrayal and rebuilding trust with her husband remain uncertain as she navigates the difficult path ahead.
46 A little too fast

User whatsername235 shared a bizarre and unforgettable experience from a night out. She recounted how her date got down on his knees in the middle of a busy city center street to declare his love for her despite only having been on two dates. The man also claimed to have the ability to see into the future and prophesied that he would die defending her honor while she was pregnant with their twins.
This strange and somewhat alarming behavior left her questioning the sanity of her date but she couldn't deny that he brought an element of excitement to their time together. The whole ordeal painted a picture of a man who was intense possibly delusional yet undeniably entertaining.
47 More painful than birth

User "ThrowRA540098" shared a distressing experience regarding her boyfriend's behavior during the birth of their baby. Despite being present throughout the natural birth process her boyfriend made hurtful comments and showed signs of embarrassment and disgust at her pain and bodily functions. These actions have left User "ThrowRA540098" feeling unsupported and disrespected during a vulnerable and challenging moment. It is concerning that her boyfriend denies making these hurtful remarks and refuses to acknowledge the impact of his behavior. User "ThrowRA540098" attempted to suggest couple's counseling as a way to address the issues but her boyfriend rejected the idea. This refusal to seek help or take responsibility for his actions raises further red flags in their relationship.
User "ThrowRA540098" is contemplating the idea of splitting up with her boyfriend but has not yet broached the subject with him. This decision is understandable given the lack of remorse or willingness to address the hurtful behavior displayed during a significant life event. It is essential for User "ThrowRA540098" to prioritize her well-being and that of her newborn baby in this situation. Seeking support from trusted friends family members or professionals may provide User "ThrowRA540098" with guidance on how to navigate this challenging situation and make decisions that are in her best interest. It is crucial for her to prioritize her emotional and physical well-being as she considers the next steps in her relationship.
48 I felt cheated

User StanMarsh01 shared a heartbreaking story about his friend who seemed to have a perfect life with a beautiful French wife. However there was a troubling issue where his wife and her family would only speak in French when they were together leaving him feeling left out and isolated. In a desperate attempt to understand what was going on he secretly recorded their conversations and had them translated.
What he discovered was devastating - his wife's family was actually insulting and belittling him behind his back every time they visited. The betrayal and cruelty he experienced from the people he thought he could trust was truly brutal. This revelation shattered his perception of his supposedly ideal marriage and left him feeling broken and betrayed. StanMarsh01's friend's story serves as a cautionary tale about the importance of honest communication and trust in relationships.
49 Controlling a woman

Reddit user u/ThrowRA-doistink shared their distressing experience with their boyfriend who constantly criticized their body odor causing them to become paranoid and obsessed with staying clean. Despite their efforts the boyfriend's comments persisted leading to a confrontation where the boyfriend revealed his toxic mindset was inherited from his father's misguided advice on how to control a woman. The emotional toll of constantly being told they smell bad took a toll on u/ThrowRA-doistink and they reached a breaking point when their boyfriend admitted the source of his behavior.
It was a shocking revelation that highlighted the damaging impact of generational attitudes towards relationships and women. In an act of self-preservation u/ThrowRA-doistink made the difficult decision to end the relationship recognizing that they deserve someone who respects and values them rather than manipulating them based on outdated beliefs. The experience serves as a reminder of the importance of setting boundaries and standing up against toxic behavior even if it means letting go of someone they care about.
50 No concept of independence

In a recent conversation with a friend Ines shared an interesting story about a guy she had met. As she got to know him better she discovered that he was employed and had the financial means to live on his own. Despite this he made the decision to continue living with his mother.
When asked about his reasoning he explained that he preferred to stay with his mother because she took care of cooking and household chores for him. This revelation left Ines intrigued and made her ponder about the dynamics of their relationship and the concept of independence.
51 A jail like relationship

My long-time best friend of 21 years Rob kept insisting that I reassure his new girlfriend that he wasn't cheating every time we hung out. I finally had enough and told him to stop. And then it happened - Rob blocked me on every platform including our two other female friends. There was no explanation just radio silence. I noticed my texts weren't going through then saw that I was blocked on Snapchat Instagram Facebook - you name it. It's like I never even existed in his life. He didn't even have the decency to send a simple text before cutting me off completely. What's even more surprising is that he's still talking to some guys in our friend group even though his girlfriend Julie claimed she didn't know he was still in touch with them.
And now he's not even allowed to hang out with the guys for drinks anymore. It's like he's completely changed since getting into this new relationship throwing away 21 years of friendship for someone he's only been dating for 6 months. It's a tough pill to swallow realizing that someone you considered a brother could just discard you like that. But I guess that's the reality of life - people change priorities shift and sometimes friendships come to an abrupt end without any warning. It's a harsh lesson but one that I'll have to learn to accept and move on from.
52 Not just about looks

User Anon_64 shared a recent experience on Tinder where they matched with a girl who was larger than their usual type but they had a lot in common so they decided to meet up. When they met in person the girl revealed that she had lost a significant amount of weight and wanted to make sure guys were interested in her for more than just her appearance. She admitted to testing Anon_64 to see if he would choose someone else if a "hotter" girl came along.
Anon_64 expressed confusion and discomfort at being put to the test feeling unsure about how to proceed in the situation. This raises questions about the dynamics of dating and the importance of authenticity and communication in relationships. It is important to consider how we approach and treat others and to be mindful of the impact of our actions on those we interact with.
53 Red flags

U/Raven_Strange shared a heartbreaking story about his wife's betrayal. As an operations manager for a big box store his wife had developed a close friendship with a younger coworker that raised suspicions. After the coworker moved to Syracuse for college his wife's behavior changed drastically. She became withdrawn and started dreading going to work which U/Raven_Strange initially attributed to job-related stress. However it soon became clear that her sadness was actually due to the distance between her and her coworker.
Despite U/Raven_Strange's hopes that a planned trip would bring his wife back to him he received a shocking call from the bank confirming suspicious charges. It turned out that his wife had driven straight to Syracuse and checked into a hotel betraying his trust and their marriage.This devastating revelation left U/Raven_Strange feeling hurt betrayed and deceived by the woman he had once loved. It serves as a cautionary tale about the dangers of ignoring red flags in a relationship and the painful consequences of infidelity.
54 Deployed in Afghanistan

Commenting on a recent episode of Lauren Lake’s Paternity Court Reddit user u/unlimitednerd shared their favorite case from the show. In this particular episode a woman spent nearly the entire 25 minutes presenting evidence to prove that a child was fathered by a certain man. She pointed out facial similarities and even brought in a witness to vouch for her character. Throughout the proceedings the man remained silent until the judge finally asked if he had anything to say in his defense. To everyone's surprise the man simply pointed to a manila folder that was sitting on the desk.
The plaintiff took the folder to the judge who opened it and then dismissed the case in favor of the man. It was revealed that the man had been deployed overseas in Afghanistan during the time of the pregnancy and birth. After four years he returned home and was introduced to the two-year-old child that he had unknowingly fathered. This heartwarming and unexpected twist in the case left viewers in awe of the power of truth and justice. It served as a reminder that sometimes the most surprising outcomes can arise when all the facts come to light. The episode showcased the emotional complexities involved in paternity cases and highlighted the importance of thorough investigation and consideration of all evidence before reaching a decision.
55 A child who thought he was a dragon

Reddit user pepperanne08 shared a bizarre and unforgettable experience from a date she went on. She described meeting a man who truly believed he was a dragon and surrounded himself with friends who also identified as dragons. This man was on a quest to find his mate convinced that the water dragon was the missing piece to his puzzle.
In addition to his unique beliefs the man was described as being close to 600 pounds and expressed a desire to create a suit of armor that resembled a dragon's scales. Pepperanne08's reaction to this unusual encounter was simply to remove herself from the situation.
56 Affair with my best friend

User u/macho_madness shared a heartbreaking story about his ex-wife betraying him by having an affair with his best friend of 14 years. He suspects that their affair may have started while they were still married adding another layer of betrayal to an already painful situation. To make matters worse his best friend was also married at the time.
It seems that their affair has continued as they now have a baby together while his best friend remains married to his wife. Despite the hurt and anger he must be feeling u/macho_madness remains hopeful that karma will eventually catch up to them. It's a painful reminder of the challenges and heartbreak that can come from trust being broken in the most devastating way.
57 Bachelorette nightmare

Over the weekend I celebrated my bachelorette party with high hopes and excitement. However as the weekend progressed things took a turn for the worse. The day after the party my Maid of Honor (MOH) told me to be ready by 10AM but by 3PM I had to ask her what the plan was. It turned out that we had missed our brunch reservation and everyone had already started drinking making it impossible for anyone to drive us anywhere. That night our plan was to go to a club in town but even that didn't go smoothly. When we finally arrived at the club my group had already merged with a group of guys leaving me feeling left out.
Later when I returned to our table I found that everyone had disappeared leaving only a few of us behind. The next morning only two girls joined me at the beach while the rest were too engrossed in drinking games to participate in the planned bachelorette activities. Feeling hurt and excluded I decided to address my feelings with the bachelorette group chat. However instead of understanding my perspective some members accused me of being selfish and ungrateful for the effort they had put into planning the party. It was a disappointing and disheartening experience that left me questioning the true nature of the bachelorette celebration.
58 Telling me what to eat?

User u/summermode shared a disappointing experience from a date she went on. She mentioned that after ordering their meals she excused herself to go to the bathroom.
However upon returning she discovered that her date had canceled part of her order specifically an extra dumpling because he thought she had ordered too much. This incident marked the end of their date leaving u/summermode feeling upset and let down by her date's actions.
59 A stranger

After graduating from college my partner and I got engaged. We had been together for five years but things started to feel off when I had to move back home for work for six months. She began to act distant and uncharacteristically withdrawn. My attempts to connect with her over the phone were met with accusations of smothering. Feeling unsettled I decided to investigate. I started checking the phone bill for suspicious numbers and looking through her emails. Despite my efforts I didn't find anything incriminating at first.
I started to doubt myself thinking I was being paranoid. However in January I stumbled upon a shocking piece of evidence that confirmed my suspicions. It was an email in her outbox with no prior conversation thread. In the email she confessed to another man that she was in a relationship but was looking for someone to help her embrace her fun side. This discovery shattered me. The person I thought I knew so well seemed like a stranger. The betrayal I felt was overwhelming and I knew I had some difficult decisions to make about the future of our relationship.
60 Driving around only to find him cheating on me

It was a night that I will never forget. I had gone to bed thinking that my partner was out with his friends only to wake up in a panic at 4 am. His absence was unsettling and I immediately tried calling him only to be met with his voicemail. I reached out to his friends who informed me that he had left hours ago. Unable to shake the feeling that something was wrong I made the decision to drive around to the locations where the boys' night had taken place. It was a friend who worked at one of these places whose car I noticed still parked outside.
My intuition led me to drive by her house and what I saw there shook me to the core - my partner's car was parked in her driveway. Filled with a mix of anger and disbelief I banged on her door until my partner finally answered. The betrayal I felt in that moment was overwhelming. We had been together for five years and to discover his infidelity in such a shocking way was a gut-wrenching experience. In that moment I made a decision to cut both of them out of my life. It was a painful choice but one that I knew was necessary for my own well-being. I closed that chapter of my life and never looked back choosing to focus on my own healing and moving forward from the betrayal that had blindsided me.
61 A cold relationship

For the past seven years u/hypertext0 and his partner have enjoyed a strong and happy relationship. They have always felt deeply connected and rarely have disagreements resolving any issues quickly. It seemed like the perfect relationship so much so that u/hypertext0 had been considering proposing to her. However everything changed when he noticed a shift in her behavior over the past month. She seemed distant and like a different person. It was during this uncertain time that u/hypertext0 stumbled upon his partner's spare phone forgotten in a drawer.
Curiosity got the best of him and he powered it on only to find her Google account still logged in. What he discovered in her recent searches shattered his world. Phrases like 'I cheated on him' and 'Breaking up a long term relationship' appeared leaving him devastated and in shock. Despite the overwhelming emotions swirling inside him u/hypertext0 has not yet confronted his partner about what he found. He is consumed by confusion and doesn't know how to react to this betrayal of trust. The once perfect relationship now hangs in the balance and u/hypertext0 is left grappling with the difficult decision of how to address the situation and move forward.
62 “Just a friend”

Message from U/SnowGlobe12: "I arrived home early from work and found a pair of women's sneakers in the garage that did not belong to me. My husband has been spending a lot of time at the gym lately where he met a female friend who is beautiful and thin - everything I am not. This discovery instantly made me feel inadequate and insecure. Despite my husband's reassurances of his love and loyalty to me I couldn't shake off the feeling of betrayal.
I cautiously made my way through the house only to find them in our bed being intimate with a framed picture from our wedding on the nightstand. The sight broke my heart and I have been inconsolable since then. It's now almost 1am and I have sought solace in the hospital where I work. When my husband called I lied about my extended shift to avoid going back home. I am currently in one of the on-call rooms sobbing uncontrollably unsure of how to move forward from this devastating discovery.
63 Love and sacrifice

Two nights ago there was a devastating fire in the kitchen of u/lovemygirlfriend267's home. Unfortunately the fire quickly spread and caused significant damage to the building before it was contained. u/lovemygirlfriend267 was not at home during the incident so their fiancée had to handle the situation alone. Despite the chaos and urgency of the situation their fiancée had to make a difficult decision. Both u/lovemygirlfriend267 and their fiancée have experienced the loss of a parent. u/lovemygirlfriend267 had kept most of their father's belongings in a storage unit but in their bedroom they had their father's ashes and other sentimental items.
On the other hand their fiancée only had a few small items that belonged to their late mother. In the midst of the fire u/lovemygirlfriend267's fiancée had to choose what to save. Instead of grabbing the few items they had of their own mother's they chose to prioritize saving u/lovemygirlfriend267's father's belongings. This selfless act left u/lovemygirlfriend267 in awe of their fiancée's love and sacrifice. The depth of love and sacrifice displayed by u/lovemygirlfriend267's fiancée in the face of such a traumatic event is truly remarkable. It speaks volumes about the strength of their relationship and the depth of their love for each other.
64 Ex best friend or ex and her best friend

User throwradontknow shared a troubling experience about his marriage of four years. He revealed that during a intimate moment with his wife she accidentally mentioned her ex's name. This understandably caused him to feel shocked and concerned. Despite his wife's explanation that it was just a common name she may have heard recently he couldn't shake off his worry about her mentioning her ex during their intimate moment.The user went on to explain that his wife's ex was her best friend before they started dating. Even though he was initially uncomfortable with their close relationship he eventually accepted it.
However after the incident of her mentioning her ex's name he felt compelled to investigate whether she had rekindled her relationship with him. This situation has left him feeling uncertain and uneasy about the state of his marriage.Overall user throwradontknow's story highlights the complexities of relationships and the insecurities that can arise when past relationships resurface. It also sheds light on the importance of communication and trust in a marriage.